The holiday season can be equal parts wonderful and overwhelming—full schedules, holiday parties, travel, end-of-year stress, and for many, a longing for connection. While this time of year is often wrapped in warmth and good cheer, it can also heighten feelings of loneliness for those who are far from family, have experienced loss, or simply don't feel connected to a meaningful community. 

That's why this season is a perfect opportunity to sprinkle in moments of joy and belonging. A little intentionality goes a long way toward helping others feel seen, supported, and at home. 

Here are a few simple ways to show a little extra care for your neighbors who may be experiencing loneliness this Christmas:

Create Simple Gatherings That Feel Easy to Step Into

When someone is feeling lonely, the idea of showing up to a big event can feel intimidating. That’s why small, cozy gatherings often make the biggest impact. Cozy drop-ins like a Hot Cocoa + Cookie Bar or Holiday Craft Night provide an easy access point for anyone to join. The goal isn’t a huge turnout—it’s creating a warm environment where neighbors can bump into each other naturally and start conversations that matter.

Bring Connection Straight to Their Door

Loneliness often hides behind closed doors, and sometimes the smallest gesture can make the biggest difference. A handwritten holiday card slipped under a doormat, a peppermint cocoa packet or candy cane waiting on a doorstep, a simple “We’re thankful you’re here” note, or even a tiny ornament or holiday magnet can brighten someone’s day in unexpected ways. These small acts of kindness remind others that someone notices them and that they belong.

Ask Thoughtful, Open-Ended Questions

Instead of asking others what they have planned for the holidays or who they'll be spending them with, consider something more personal, like, "What's one holiday tradition that's really special to you?" or "What's a favorite holiday memory from your childhood?" As you make discoveries and learn more about their stories, you might even find opportunities to participate in a tradition together, like baking a favorite recipe or watching a nostalgic movie. A little intentionality in everyday conversation is the perfect way to make others feel more known and seen. 

Offer Opportunities to Give Back

Generosity is one of the most powerful antidotes to loneliness, and when neighbors serve together, proximity naturally turns into connection. You might host a toy or coat drive, set up a community gift-wrapping station, organize a cookie exchange or treat swap, or offer a simple volunteer sign-up for the new year. Giving back helps us all feel part of something bigger—and reminds everyone that they have something meaningful to contribute.

Invite Others into Your Own Special Traditions

Whether you're heading out to drive around and look at Christmas lights, or pulling your favorite cookies out of the oven, take a moment to share your favorite holiday experiences with the people around you. There might be someone in your life who would love to be included. Sometimes the easiest pathway to connection is simply by sharing the things we love and inviting others to experience our joy right alongside us. 

If loneliness is part of someone’s story this year, a few simple, human moments can rewrite the narrative. Your time, your kindness, and your willingness to show up create real connection—and that’s something your friends and neighbors will carry with them long after the holidays end.

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